everyone is projecting their trauma on to everyone else at all times
some of us just manage to find slightly more constructive ways of doing that (and eventually they aren't enough)
I also wanna give a shout out to people who can disavow whatever fucked up shit they wrote when they were hurting without condescending anyone who related/relates to it at the time. You da real MVP.
lyrics
...the only socially acceptable method of taking your shit out on others is making art...